The NEWS is out! We have secured a large ground floor volunteers flat (with exclusive outside back area) which we plan to also use for a learning facility for the kids from the block. This was always part of our dream for the area...So excited! Volunteers sign up here...!
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Today my friend, Chantelle, on the 17th floor of the "liftless" building opposite us, left a message on my phone to call her. I was expecting to be needed to help move her from her tiny room (on the 17th floor) sometime this week ...*pant, pant!*... so imagine my delight when she told me she had been able to find some support to move all by herself...Yay! Wonderful for her and her daughter that they are now in a better place staying with her mom in Bertrams! She sounded really happy on the phone...
Mother Teresa was a women who demonstrated her faith through her life. I love these quotes...
[http://m.youtube.com/?reload=3&rdm=m94ktx3e5#/home] So today's volunteering at the Hillbrow Music School (across the road) started with a surprise 2 recorder pupils whose teacher (on clarinet, sax and recorder) was busy with another student. I was handed a third recorder out the cupboard (they have many instruments for kids to use!!) and taught them both for about 45 mins. Fun...and I'm not despising small beginnings!
Lots of volunteering opportunities into the future... Popped back across the road to our flat to find Thembiso (Daniel's friend) climbing about 2 metres up the side of the brick wall in the kids play area! He got down alright just before I arrived to help him and then all the kids there just HUGGED me hallo...! Surprised and Amazed at the love and the light in this place sometimes... Went with my 2 oldest girls to their first music lessons at the Hillbrow Music School across the road today: Hannah to the guitar teacher and Rachel to the piano teacher! Learned some new things about the guitar myself! Tomorrow Hannah will also attend the drum ensemble...They both thoroughly enjoyed today's lessons which were over an hour each! Can see myself spending a lot more time there slotting into all sorts of teaching groups to help out, and also have some fun myself! Should start my own volunteering there this Wednesday.
Last night we had our first invitation to supper by one of the residents, and new friends, in our block of flats, a Zimbabwean man called John. His friend, Tafadzwa, cooked us a feast of rice, pap, potatoes, chicken, sausage and the most delicious tasting mackerel, served together with 3 salads, 2 avocados, an assortment of soft drinks and the biscuits we brought with us! An extremely generous amount of food, even for our large family! John shares the flat with 2 other men. His wife and 3 children will be visiting him from Zimbabwe in August, so we will definitely be making plans to get our 2 families together again then, maybe a day's picnic in the park...
Our family spent their time today helping out at the Hillbrow Clinic for the day... our friends at the Rehab Unit had put on a real treat for the community. The theme was TOUCH 1000 LIVES. We handed out blankets, beanies and food and then had a super delicious lunch together... and there was super fun entertainment! It was a great day!!!
Ariella Diamond (one of the organisers) had this to say: "Mandela Day at Hillbrow Clinic was beyond our dreams! We touched 1000 lives- 1000 scarves and beanies, tins of food,packs of Millie meal, juices and over 1000 hot meals cooked by woolworths as well as a kiddies party with party packs and cake... A day of celebration and cultural entertainment with a treat from Dj Sbu :) an unforgettable experience!" Singing "Happy Birthday" to Madiba... Our story from today...(as seen through the eyes of Nigel)
As we were arriving home from church, about a block away from our home, there was a large crowd gathering. I got Trish to drop me off and went to see what was happening. I noticed that a man was standing on the 8th floor ledge of a building. The windows behind him to gain access back into the building were closed. People were just standing around watching and taking pictures with their cell phones.. I phoned the emergency services and first spoke to the fire brigade who said "what can we do?". When I said "get out here and help the man", they put the phone down. I then spoke to the police. At this point the crowd had started shouting at the man... some even encouraging him to jump. The police then also put the phone down as they could not hear me over the crowd. I then tried them again and this time they agreed to come through but they could not tell me how long they would take. I realized I needed to intervene before the man jumped. I went to some security guards, told them I was a social worker and asked them to come with me. We ran up the 8 flights of stairs and realized that he was on the ledge outside a locked flat. The flat tenant was not there so we broke the security gate and door of the flat and went inside. I spoke to the man from a distance and then got closer to him. I tried to keep him calm and just kept sharing love with him. He had a large gash in his neck and he told me some people were trying to murder him and that he wanted to tell his story to the court. I told him I would help him to tell his story. About 20 minutes in to talking to him, the police arrived - they told me that they did not have a negotiator nearby and asked me to keep talking to the man. I shared with him God's love. We spoke for over an hour and I ended up praying with him. He was encouraged and even asked me to look him up on Facebook while he was on the ledge. As I looked at his profile on my blackberry, he seemed to relax and agreed to come in. He then came in through the window to the cheers of the crowd below. As I walked with him to the ambulance most of the, by now massive crowd cheered in excitement, I could not believe, however, what other people were saying to him. They shouted at him saying that he was stupid to try to take his life and swore at him and generally insulted him. All the time I held the man. In the ambulance, the very caring emergency staff treated his neck and then we took him to check his wounds at the emergency unit at the Hillbrow clinic. Some of his family members were there and they agreed to stay with him. The doctor I spoke to said that she would refer him to the hospital and admit him as she was concerned he would try to take his life again. I then left him in the care of the hospital staff and his family. About 2 1/2 hours later, I received a call from a family member to say he had run away from the hospital and was threatening to jump again. A friend, Sifiso, and I rushed back to the building, but we were too late, he had jumped. His body was still breathing and so we touched him and spoke loving words and his life ebbed away. We spent a little while comforting his father and brother who were in disbelief about the events and then we returned home. I am deeply saddened by all that happened today, but know that he experienced some love during all the trauma. These are difficult times with few workers to care for the hurting and broken in this city. Rest well Delight Ndlovu! As we were arriving home from church, about a block away from our home, there was a large crowd gathering. I got Trish to drop me off and went to see what was happening. I noticed that a man was standing on the 8th floor ledge of a building. The windows behind him to gain access back into the building were closed. People were just standing around watching and taking pictures with their cell phones.
I phoned the emergency services and first spoke to the fire brigade who said "what can we do?". When I said "get out here and help the man", they put the phone down. I then spoke to the police. At this point the crowd had started shouting at the man... some even encouraging him to jump. The police then also put the phone down as they could not hear me over the crowd. I then tried them again and this time they agreed to come through but they could not tell me how long they would take. I realized I needed to intervene before the man jumped. I went to some security guards, told them I was a social worker and asked them to come with me. We ran up the 8 flights of stairs and realized that he was on the ledge outside a locked flat. The flat tenant was not there so we broke the security gate and door of the flat and went inside. I spoke to the man from a distance and then got closer to him. I tried to keep him calm and just kept sharing love with him. He had a large gash in his neck and he told me some people were trying to murder him and that he wanted to tell his story to the court. I told him I would help him to tell his story. About 20 minutes in to talking to him, the police arrived - they told me that they did not have a negotiator nearby and asked me to keep talking to the man. I shared with him God's love. We spoke for over an hour and I ended up praying with him. He was encouraged and even asked me to look him up on Facebook while he was on the ledge. As I looked at his profile on my blackberry, he seemed to relax and agreed to come in. He then came in through the window to the cheers of the crowd below. As I walked with him to the ambulance most of the, by now massive crowd cheered in excitement, I could not believe, however, what other people were saying to him. They shouted at him saying that he was stupid to try to take his life and swore at him and generally insulted him. All the time I held the man. In the ambulance, the very caring emergency staff treated his neck and then we took him to check his wounds at the emergency unit at the Hillbrow clinic. Some of his family members were there and they agreed to stay with him. The doctor I spoke to said that she would refer him to the hospital and admit him as she was concerned he would try to take his life again. I then left him in the care of the hospital staff and his family. About 2 1/2 hours later, I received a call from a family member to say he had run away from the hospital and was threatening to jump again. A friend, Sifiso, and I rushed back to the building, but we were too late, he had jumped. His body was still breathing and so we touched him and spoke loving words and his life ebbed away. We spent a little while comforting his father and brother who were in disbelief about the events and then we returned home. I am deeply saddened by all that happened today, but know that he experienced some love during all the trauma. These are difficult times with few workers to care for the hurting and broken in this city. Rest well Delight Ndlovu! Hannah has been telling me about what her friends eat on a daily basis. Most of her friends do no get breakfast or lunch. They eat 2 packs of R1 puff ball chips during the day to keep away the hunger and then normally only have pap and sauce for dinner.
She thinks we should do something about this. I agree! |
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